Drabbing as an archetypical masculine disposition
The habit of drabbing is as old as the human society itself. As soon as humankind reached the mental development that made them able to live in society, there had appeared this service to satisfy the masculine demand. From prehistoric times we do not have much information remained concerning this mannish habit because sexual intercourse with female strangers was likely to happen due to the physical superiority of males, that is to say, it was violence and coercion that would make promiscuity available for them any time. Before the development of societal laws and regulations as well as the system of criminal legislation, it is quite probable that the male sexual instinct that would arise as uncontrollably and suddenly (at a sight, for example) as it does with animals may have been used to be satisfied by force. At the time of tribal communities and societies it was common to rape women of the adverse tribe or women robbery: the pretty ones were simply taken away at ambush then raped after which the distinguished warriors of the tribe, who lived in polygamy, enrolled them as one of their housewives. We have several references in ancient historical or mythological sources that warriors would keep female prisoners for sexual fun who were either made free and promoted to be their wife or kept as lovers. The most remarkable case is the Greek Achilles’ who rather had honkey tonkey with the breathtaking female prisoner, Briseis than would give some thoughts about how to conquer the fortress of Troy. Odysseus himself was committing adultery for long years with the nymph Calypso, said to be quite skilful in sexual practices, in her island until he got bored with making love with just one woman and therefore decided to leave for his wife. His poor wife, Penelope was worrying to death while her unfaithful husband was having crazily intense orgasms with the resourceful and magical nymph.
Institutionalized prostitution first appeared the earliest in the ancient Roman Empire in form of brothels although the activity itself had already been present in the Grecian society or in the ancient Egypt. At those times drabbing was considered similar to a common recreational activity such as going to spa or sauna. It was quite natural and accepted to visit prostitutes, which was such a typical male habit as watching football nowadays.
As drabbing is approximately as old as the natural disposition of males for promiscuity we can state that this is an archetypical feature of the male gender. No one can contradict to this fact or halt this primordial instinct. Drabbing was a flourishing business even at the time of pestilences, and strangely or morbidly enough, it often took place in cemeteries or among dead bodies, not putting off at all the male desire.
This male disposition for promiscuity is so ancient that its realization, the action of drabbing can be easily called an archetypical male characteristic. If this disposition has been being had by our gender for such a long time, it can be presumed to be natural, and if something is natural, it should be normally healthy, that is to say, it does good to our health. In the next subchapters I will try to summarize why it is good or beneficial or what advantages it has if men give way to this archetypical feature by patronizing prostitutes.
The advantages of drabbing
1. Variety delights – Cicero
Nullus est locus domestica sede iucundior – said the Roam citizen while following penises engraved on pavement and walls to get to the nearest brothel, or the wealthy ones to spas where, as a way of relaxation, they would enjoy one or more prostitutes just to forget about the problems the daily routine caused them. In Rome women were supposed either to play the respected role of a mother, who ran the family and were responsible to reproduce and take care of the next generation, or to be a prostitute, whose societal function was to satisfy men’s sexual need. Family life and sexual life did not take place at the same location since the former one was to happen at home, the latter one was to carry out at brothels, spas etc. Visiting prostitutes was not a big deal in moral sense as it was clear that male desire could not be restricted on just one body in one lifetime that is the desire was believed to require variety that it maintained and generate in the course of time.
Certainly we feel it or have felt it several times, while grabbing our partners’ butts to represent proudly our possession publicly, walking along a busy street we often find that we are always forced to turn our head after newer and newer butts, which anyway may not be as roundish and well-shaped as the one we are squeezing, still we seem too interested in them. It does not matter that we were making love all the previous night and our legs are shaking due to the sophistic exercises we did on the bed with our partner, because this ever-lasting curiosity makes us turn our head toward the direction of new sights for our desire, the direction of new prospects, new forms, new scents or smells, new impressions, new touches and the new sources of delectation. Simply to say, this is how we are designed, that is why I am saying do not make a fuss about it! If Darwin is right, and we really used to be monkeys, just take a look at what monkeys do every day. What you see is group sex or the heaven of promiscuity. Every one of them with every one of them wherever and whenever has sexual intercourse. If we can believe biologist, the role of foreskin just confirms the fact that promiscuity used to be the part of the life of our species. Foreskin had the function to create a sort of vacuum in the vagina in order to remove the semen of the previous partner for the next one to get his ejaculation to the ovary. Therefore if this is how we are designed originally, and we no longer live in monkey hordes, it comes natural to gratify our passion for promiscuity at a place, the existence of which the society recognizes. Well, if we are designed for variety and diversity, which was certainly intentional by our creator, although he did not inform us why, we could easily figure out the reason why he planted insatiable desire into us: it cannot be else than the act of giving and receiving pleasure.
As experience shows every single relationship has an expiry date of valid period based on sexuality which is said to last for around 3 years, after which the intensity of pleasure decreases as much as the number of sexual interactions degraded to routine. Sexual contact becomes routine, resulting in losing excitement in it, because, to be honest, we get bored with it, the delight of variety is lost. This is why we keep turning our head all the time, entertaining the thought of having some affairs with that curvy shop assistant girl at the groceries or with that abundant-breasted milf or with that gymnast with roundish calves from the next door or with that horny-looking petite gal who you often see in the gym or with that buxom lady with fleshy red lips from the hairdresser or I could go on listing how many types of women you fancy. But if we visit brothels, we arrive to the heaven of variety where we have the opportunity to choose whatever body structure with whatever physical features we would like to try to your liking. We can try all of the legal (sometimes even illegal) ages from teen to granny, all of the body types from skinny to curvaceous, all sorts of pussy from shaved to hairy bush, all the sexual practices from the traditional ones to the most daring role playing games etc. Of course visiting prostitutes does not guarantee that you won’t stare at the shop assistant chick who is just organizing the carrots at a greengrocers but I am sure you won’t complain about the monotony of your sexual life.
2. There is no boring fore play and you can concentrate on the substance
It must have happened to most of you that sometimes you got such a tremendous boner that your brain stopped working and you needed immediate action to alleviate your burning desire. You were just waiting and waiting for your partner to come home just to spring at her with painfully erected pecker as soon as she arrived. Instead, what happened? She wanted to eat something first because she had been working all day, or she needed to make some important phone call, or she had an appointment at the hairdresser etc and you just had to keep waiting and waiting again until your marvellous erection was gone. Well, this is what cannot happen when you are with a prostitute or escort girl. As you have paid her, during this paid period what Mr. Johnson wants is supposed to happen. You do not have to beg or entice your partner. All of your dreams can come true right away and the spontaneity can be luxuriated.
3. There is no after play and other emotional nuisances
We are often criticised to be so careless that we do not pay enough attention on caring for our partner’s feelings and soul after the intercourse as we are just like animals that having satisfied its needs go on with their everyday routine as if nothing had happened. If we consider sexuality as a routine action like secretion, then why should we appreciate a natural process that is bound to happen? A prostitute or escort girl, who works on the clock, normally does not care about feelings and emotions in connection with sexual contact, her feelings are not affected by sexual act because she can take it in her stride: it is no more than working off a substantial instinct such as secretion.
4. To indulge suppressed dirty fantasy
Perverse sexual practices cannot take place on the family bed most of the times because the wife simply thinks it is disgusting what we would like to do. There are misfortune husbands for whom even oral sex is forbidden, not talking about analsex or BDSM or role playing games. Therefore it is not surprising that what we dream about only the service list of a prostitute or escort girl includes. We nearly have to beg at home to bring some fantasy into the intercourse, often at the expense of such a bargain that costs us much more than the money we would have to pay for a prostitute or escort girl for an average sexual service. All right, in return it is not money that we have to pay at home but other, extra domestic services that we undertake by having a little extra fun, such as more housework, more attention to her etc. This is why I am saying that it is much easier and sometimes less expensive to patronize prostitutes to give way to our sexual fantasies. There we do not have to be ashamed of our dirty imagination because it is natural if paid, in addition, all kinds of sexual equipment and accessories are available therefore you do not have to purchase them, such as masks, whip, handcuff, gag, strapon, dildo, sexy lingerie...etc. that would be quite expensive.
5. Gratification of lust for power
Many of us tend to find pleasure in gratifying our lust for power in sex. At home it is almost impossible because the wife or girlfriend won’t agree to degrade her personality as she fears for her position in the relationship, which is natural. Therefore it is understandable again why we should prefer the company of prostitutes: they do not mind at all being humiliated until they are paid. They are well-aware how to make us feel that we are superior, even for s a short time, when we can enjoy total authority undisturbed that we often finish by a good facial or cum in mouth or on body, tits...etc.
6. Saving time
I have already mentioned partly that by skipping fore and after play we can save a lot of time. Besides, due to her profound experience, the prostitute or escort girl can easily find out what we long for therefore we do not have to instruct her or explain to her what to do. She has seen so many strange things in life that she can guess quickly our dirtiest desires while if we wanted to represent it to our wife at home, it would consume a lot of time begging and explaining and instructing her about what to do. Time is money therefore we can talk about saving money again when we seek satisfaction at prostitutes’ company.
7. The sexual act has event importance
As I have already touched it, domestic sex loses its event importance because it works like a routine in the same circumstance all the time (the same place, the same bed, the same positions etc.) that results in boredom. But if we make a real experience or adventure of sexual action, although it is consequently less frequent, it will well surpass the pleasure that the domestic sex can render us. You can make the event a real ritual on the altar of pleasure. Before the action you drink something to stupefy your raging senses, your alert schlong pulsating with desire in order to avoid too easy ejaculation. Let the prostitute work on you so that you can enjoy every paid minutes. You can lengthen the time and deepen the experience by smoking some w**d before the intercourse. To reach the peak of pleasure and absolute relaxation, intensify the joy with gastronomic experience by having something delicious to eat or something of high quality to drink after drabbing or you could go to a nice spa to relax.
8. There is no danger of becoming a father
Prostitutes orn escort girls pay a profound attention on protection due to high hygienic requirements therefore most of the times sexual act takes place in condom. Of course by paying a lot of extra money pure rubbing meat against meat is also available, but the prostitute always knows how to avoid unwanted pregnancy. Her pharmaceutical knowledge and contraceptive skill is excellent therefore you never need to worry about the consequences of pleasure.
9. Cost efficiency
If I say drabbing or visiting an escort girl are cheaper than having a girlfriend, many of you might be dubious about what you hear. You might answer that enjoying a good service at a nice brothel is disastrous to your budget. But having a girlfriend does not a burden on your budget, does it? If you take a closer look at the annual expense you invest in your girlfriend and make some calculation, you will be surprised to see that patronizing prostitutes is less expensive than keeping a relationship. On the one hand, if we take into consideration the time we can gain by drabbing and the fact that time is money in this hectic world, and on the other hand, if we sum up how much we spend on clothes, presents, romantic dinners, travels etc. for our girlfriend, you will clearly come to the conclusion that having a girlfriend is more expensive. At this point you need to consider either having an expensive girlfriend with whom sex is bound to become boring sooner or later or the less costly drabbing, which will never be boring and monotonous because it is always your desire that comes true.
10. Emotional independence, no awkward melodramatic scenes
A prostitute will never make scenes, will never be jealous, and will never complain if you do not care of her or if you mistreat her. It is true vice versa you will never have affections towards her because you have tried many of them, you have been using many of them because variety delights you therefore you cannot be jealous and will never have to ponder about what she thinks or feels. Many possible problems of this sort can be eliminated and you will be free of emotional nuisances. We have to admit that most of our problems are caused by women therefore you’d better not give the chance for that well-known temporal lunacy or derailment called love to develop, by doing so you can avoid a painful, malignant and often fatal malady.
11. There is no disappointment
Contended thus long relationships always end in obesity. Happiness simply fattens you. In the beginning of a relationship stormy and intense sexual intercourses leads to increased food intake as women tend to get hungry after a rocketing orgasm. They lose their body form slowly but surely about which you were so enthusiastic, and they are stealthily preparing for pregnancy though they might not be aware of this natural process by growing thick fat layers. You begin to notice how your slim fairy is becoming a bulky cow, which is similar to the process how a butterfly develops from a cocoon, but unfortunately this is a converse development. Your firm erection is becoming less and less hard, your cock is gradually drooping like the head of a ripe sunflower in autumn. This is the end. This is when your desire stops existing. Your disappointed eyes are just scanning the crowd in streets in the hope of catching sights of new and slim fairies, while your girlfriend, who has undergone a serious metamorphosis, is rolling by your side like a heavy rock, who, in addition, is about to tell you it is time to start a family. Your dick feels like being dangled in icy water and begins to withdraw into the penis socket as it knows there will be no need for it for a long while. This is the culmination of disappointment. It is not enough that you see that terrible metamorphosis, it still will be worsened with a big belly, then a broadened, torn vagina and birth scars on the stretched skin. If it were not disappointing enough, you need to know that the female body will concentrate on taking care of the baby for a long while because this is her function. Hence you and your cock pulsating with desire have no role because you have completed your genetic mission. Now you feel that you have been cheated, in addition your cock begins torturing you, but what should you do, you cannot leave your family just to release semen on a regular basis. It does not need to be mentioned that if you had preferred to patronize prostitutes, this all would not have happened to you. There is no obesity, no metamorphosis because prostitutes or escort girls are always in good condition as keeping fit is a sort of professional requirement. If your favourite ones should happen to change, you still have the chance to use newer and newer whores as the next generation of them keep getting employed at your disposal, fresh and peachy meats in different forms, with different hair colour and style, with different wrapping of silky skin will be always available for your insatiable and eternal desire.
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