The private life of an escort can realize in many ways. One of the most typical is when the escort honestly exposes what she does for a living to both the family and friends. The other possible way is when the escort girl completely secretly does escort services.
Escort trade is
very difficult to reconcile with honest private life. One of the reasons for this
is the negative judgment of ordinary people about the job. Since the majority
of people think that eskorts are simply prostitutes because of their ignorance,
openly work as an escort is very difficult because of the stigmatization and
condemnation of society. And this is further worsened by the social and
religious structure of the country from which the girl comes from. For example,
for an escort girl from a religious or radical community it would be almost
impossible to get her family and friends to accept the fact that she works as
an escort.
A non-honest
private life can also be maintained. Most of the escorts do this. A touring escort
working abroad is practically impossible to get caught. So when she returns
home, the escort can "just simply" isolate her privacy from the sex
business because no one knows she works in sex business. It’s another question,
however, how she’ll explain her regular trip abroad and the sudden financial
boom.
We cannot also ignore
the reason why an escort takes sex employment and how often she does it. For
example, if a young girl just wants to finance her university studies, and say,
she only sells her time to clients every other week, then she’ll have enough
time to spend on her private life. Conversely, if we take the example of an
escort that wants to set up the future with hard work for years to get a
significant amount of money in the shortest possible time, then privacy is
bound to be pushed into the background. But that is true of most jobs. The more
you work, the less time you’ll have on everything else.
What influences
someone to be an escort can be the personality as well. I’ve already mentioned
those escorts that will become escort, escort girl escort boy, shemale escort,
ladyboys, or transsexual escort because they like to work as an escort, having
escort meetings and sex with strangers. For these escort private and public
life are the same. Such escorts usually have friends from the escort trade. In
this case, privacy is fully compatible with private life, so it is possible to
have private life while working as an escort. Here belongs the so-called
celebrity escorts (Loredana Jolie, Ashley Dupre, Just Kassandra, Loredana
Jolie) whose all life is about the escort trade. Separating private life from
sex job therefore is impossible because the escort’s whole life is based on escort
work, giving her a sort of life style.
Those escorts
who want to separate the sex job from their private life are in a difficult
situation, escpecially if they long for a relationship, as it is certainly difficult
to find a partner who tolerates her girlfriend’s travelling abroad to date with
foreign men. From this aspect, the separation of work from private life is almost
impossible without a proper partner. Additionally, it is especially difficult
for those escort girls who have become escorts not out of their own will. These
escorts cannot, in essence, process the negative experiences that go with the
job (problematic clients, constant stress, atrocities during escort meeting, etc.)
and turn to drugs, alcohol, and then slowly pass through a personality change.
This change takes away all the possibilities of an escort having a sovereign,
private life.
Last but not
least, the process of separation from the work (if an escort longs for it)
always begins with mental issues, and in every case is a trying thing. It is
certainly a strong personality that can do that.