Does a natural
escort have a consciously set up business plan or does she act instinctively?
Which is the more profitable in the long run?
If natural or
true-born born escorts exist, then it is possible that certain essential
personality features needed to success in the profession may be inherent in
them. While others need to learn how to attract sex clients and feel their
desires and expectations, there may also be escorts who have the innate
attraction and sensitivity to win sex customers. These are skills that are
subjectively measurable, and defining the technique how to make use of them
during sex work is difficult due to its complexity. Possessing them in the beginning
of escort career can be a great advantage, as escorts do not have to invest
time and extra energy in learning the patterns of behaviour that are beneficial
and even indispensable in this profession. On the other hand, in favour of
escorts that need learning and self-education, they will probably have more
insight into the profession, as they must consciously learn things that are
essential in the sex business. The more they learn, the deeper they will
understand the correspondence of the profession, which, in turn, will
eventually benefit greatly them in contrast with instinctive escorts. Although
an instinctive escort can enchant sex client with sexual attraction, with
sophisticated sense of style, without learning to have them, yet the going off script
will not be profitable in the long run. If an escort does not acquire the skill
to be careful and focused on sex work - because he or she does not feel the
need of it - then they will not notice the hidden opportunities of the sex
trade. In this case, the trained, experienced, consciously prepared escort will
use them instead. It is important
to see not only the opportunities of escort trade, but also its dangers. If an
escort is conscious and critical during sex career, she or he will be able to
overcome difficulties more effectively that happen to turn up in sex business
over time. As a result of being able to learn from every situation, she or he
will develop. If the instinctive escort does not recognize or take seriously
that she or he should carry out sex work with care and awareness, she or he
will stagnate at a level of sex service and will not be able to progress. This
applies to everything that can be found in the profession: look,
attractiveness, social sensitivity, sexual experience, sexual openness, etc. An
escort willing to learn will take on even more clients with extreme needs in
order to broaden her or his horizons regarding both sex clients and their
sexual perversions. So she or he is not comfortable because they do not feel in
the saddle. She or he just keeps pushing forward, and then, as a result, will
overmaster his or her competitors, who have become too comfortable in sex
trade. The luckiest
escorts are perhaps those who not only instinctively possess the abovementioned
personal qualities, but also have a lot of mind and self-criticism to recognize
that they also need to train themselves, whether in terms of professional
etiquette or human knowledge, or even their sexual techniques. In addition, if
they pay due attention to learning languages and being knowledgeable on certain
topics and acting as good partners in oral communication, then they are the
ones who will succeed in sex profession the soonest. The careful
business plan and the strategy developed to realize the plan means that the
escort has an insight on the profession and she or he knows what to build the
plan on. It is said that those are successful in their career that set up
successive goals and move forward along with the goals, following a strict
schedule. They have sufficient self-criticism to help them see their own
strengths and weaknesses. They know what skills to use and improve. All in all,
in my view, without a conscious, self-critical work and a business plan, it is
not possible to be successful in the sex trade in the long run. Yet, if so, it
is just for a short time.