Perhaps the most well-known sexual
deviation defined as not sin is a course of actions, the so-called
sadistic-masochistic sexual practice, which often involves various bondages and
pinions between subordinate and superior member of the game, and hence its
name: BDSM, bandage, discipline, sado-masochism. BDSM is now a popular escort
or escort-prostitute sex service, which is not always necessarily sexual in
nature, when it is more about humiliation and pain at extreme levels, such as
whipping or psychic torture. In addition, in sado-masochistic practices the sexual
or non-sexual natured act of penance and retribution due to the perpetration of
some sin or crime turns up the most typically. There may be several reasons of
this sexual deviance, such as: blaming others for the subject’s sexual
excitement (by pushing the sexual partner’s eyes during sexual intercourse),
escaping from reality (by dressing up in different fancy costumes and clothes),
or creating an artificial reality in which the subject has power over his or
her sexual object, or vice versa, in reality a powerful sex guest can finally
experience all the defencelessness and humiliation he normally causes to his
subordinates at work.
Regarding gender distribution of sex
clients using BDSM service it can be claimed that men tend to take on the role
of inflicting pain, whereas women tend to be in the dominated role, which can
be explained by men’s greater tendency to aggression, while women are usually
in passive roles, but of course that doesn't always work that way.
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